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From: Arlissa  Posted: Aug-25-2000 5:25 pmMsg: 207E
Subject: [BlackTresses] My 9 y/o son's hair
I dont know if you all remember my mentioning several months ago that
my son wanted to grow his hair out in order to wear cornrows and
twists.

Well after much deliberation, I told him yes. He's been growing it
since the middle of May.

He attends a Primitive Baptist Church Academy that I pay for. Last
night I put comb twists in his hair. Well I got a call this morning
from the school administrator informing me that he is in violation of
school dress code. The dress code states that the boys' hair should
be neatly cut and trimmed, not touching the ears, in a manner that is
normal for a boy. No styles.

Though I'm sure nothing will change, I need to have my say with the
school's administration. The pastor of the church is very old
fashioned and a power monster. He rules (and thinks he super-rules)
Since it's a private school, they're kind of free to set their own
rules. My husband and I are having a meeting with the adminstration
on Monday morning. I have so much that I want to say, but I want to
present my 'case' in a professional (not ghetto) manner.
Questions for you all. 1. Is this a battle worth fighting? 2. Do I
have a leg to stand on as far as the constitutional rights of my son
as it relates to the dress code? 3. Pulling my kids out wouldnt
really change anything. Do you see any other options?

I'm looking for some insight here. I plan on bringing pictures of
African hairstyles with me to the meeting. I will also be at the
board meetings this year. I've been participating in the PTA, but I
will add the board to my list.

What do you all think?



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[BlackTresses] My 9 y/o son's hair  Arlissa  
  Re: [BlackTresses] My 9 y/o son's hair  wkm129@aol.com 

Updated: 08-26-2000 21:33:21